Post-cancer, Anastasia Chomlack uses her camera to empower women to land more wholeheartedly in their lives.
Almost two years ago, in June, Anastasia Chomlack jumped into the hotel shower, on her way to photograph a wedding in Arizona. The then-39-year-old founder of the Whistler Wedding Collective, Gather Creatives and Anastasia Photography had been shooting destination weddings for over a decade. She had a manic summer ahead – 30 weddings booked, and a million ideas for creative collaborations and mentoring coming to fruition. And then she found the lump.
She landed, suddenly and shockingly, in her body.
“It wasn’t like, oh this is a lump. It was: where did you come from? You are a massive lump in my breast. I shower the same way every day. And it really felt like it had come out of nowhere.”
At first, she and husband Chad processed the diagnosis privately, trying to quietly get a grasp of what they were dealing with. But when their community wanted to host a fundraiser, they were prompted to be more open about their journey than their initial inclination.
“I’ve photographed hundreds of weddings and I’ve learned to see what’s real and what’s not,” says Chomlack. “I’m bothered by things that aren’t. During cancer, I tried to put something out there that was real. But it felt very vulnerable and very scary, because I wondered if I was to blame for my cancer and was struggling processing the possibility of that.”
hello. Many of you have heard now through social media that I am walking through a recent cancer diagnosis. I cannot thank you enough for the outpouring of love and support this last week. I never thought this would be something I would share so publicly….. I also never thought I would get cancer:) | life doesn't seem to really follow our own rules and so here I am lying in post chemo fog on my 16th wedding anniversary next to @chadchomlack unable to even remotely express the amount of love that I have for this man who has genuinely chosen to truly love me in sickness and health- it's frustrating + easy to ask a million "why me" questions but let me tell you- they aren't the right questions because it's a decision…. I will choose to be thankful, I will be present in this moment accepting every lesson that this journey has to give me, and Chad- I will continue to choose you every day to love and adore for as many days as I can #16andcounting #happyanniversary #embracecancer #wearestilllaughing 📷@jlowphoto
She posted long candid posts on her Facebook account, pulled out of her journal, edited, and re-edited a hundred times before she shared them. The response was huge – she got hundreds of comments and emails from people, telling her how inspired or altered or influenced they were, asking for updates. “I wanted to write in a way that gave me, and others, hope, but I wanted to be honest about what we were walking through. The cost of not being honest and not being vulnerable is just too high.”
We first met when Chomlack was on the other side of her treatment, a week before her one year PET scan, blood test and chest Xrays, and though she was terrified of the results, she mused, “Cancer was a gift. I had to walk into my own pain and suffering and realize that I am enough, that I am not to blame for this. Cancer can happen to anyone. There have been great amazing people in this community who have passed away and no one would ever say they didn’t do enough. They just died of cancer because we live in a broken world and we are not entitled to a long life and foreverness. That’s probably something I’ll be sorting through for the rest of my life. I feel more grounded now than I’ve ever been. I was definitely in a rush, in a hurry, very busy, very go-go-go. I haven’t lost any of that desire, I still get a thousand ideas a time, but the way I’m processing them, the way I’m communicating them, has changed. They hold a weight now that they didn’t have before.”
“For me, it took illness to slow me down. Not everyone has to become ill or have some traumatic event to slow them down. But as women – oh, it’s hard for us. We have our hand in so many things as moms and business owners and friends and wives. Our potential to dream and create is so huge. Sometimes we don’t slow down enough to really realize what we need.”
After Chomlack’s tests came back all clear, she began to seriously explore, what did she need? What did she want to do? Where did she want to put her energy? How did photography fit into her remade less frantic self?
I want you to feel seen. I want to show you the way other people see you. I want to celebrate you. The idea behind the Women’s Series photo sessions is to send you into 2018 with a little gift in your pocket – a photo to go to whenever you have doubt. An image that screams all the things that should be second nature to you, but aren’t, that you are beautiful, you can do hard things, you are smart. YOU ARE ENOUGH. Getting your photo taken demands bravery. It demands the courage to let go of inhibitions and quiet the voices in your head. I can help you do that. continued in the comments- . . . . #womenseries #empowerwomen #riseup #women #beyou #beyourself #justbe #celebrateyourself #sessions #headshots #portraits #lifestyle #lifestylesession #girlpower #empower #inspire #anastasiaphotography #whistlerwomenseries
Through a single instagram post and a single Facebook post, she soft-launched a Women’s Series, offering five portrait sessions that were immediately filled.
The photo shoots evolved into deeply personal one day retreats, complete with make up artist, personal stylist, coaching and catering, and the feedback was so positive and phenomenal that Chomlack has now launched the Women’s Empowerment Sessions, which she’s booking now through the spring.
EMPOWERMENT SESSIONS!!! It’s a everything you can fit into one day retreat | are you an entrepreneur? Bring your product…. Are you a mom? Bring your family….. Are you simply looking for confidence in front of the camera + a reset? Bring your besties that have supported you on your kickass journey thus far! We can make anything happen- all while you have been styled, wardrobe picked- and hair + make up done! Photos, coaching, catering and pampering all day long! ☝🏻link in profile!
“I’d started to think about the women in my life and all the women I’d met in my cancer journey, and I realized that women really need to know who they are. They need truth. They need people in their life saying ‘I see you. I see all the things about who you are when you’re not running around being busy.’”
And so this is where Anastasia Chomlack has landed – inviting women to slow right down and land in their own lives, and skins, and stories, for at least, one entire day. And be seen. Beautifully, fully, simply, seen.
For more information about Anastasia Chomlack’s Empowerment Sessions, click here.
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